Slate Advises Wife to Use Vibrator in 3-Inch Penis Dilemma
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Updated · Slate · Aug 2
Slate Advises Wife to Use Vibrator in 3-Inch Penis Dilemma
1 articles · Updated · Slate · Aug 2
Summary
A wife in her early 50s told Slate she and her husband "never have sex" because his 3-inch erect penis does not provide stimulation and often slips out, while his kissing also turns her off.
Slate’s advice column said the core issue is not size alone: many people do not orgasm from vaginal penetration, and the wife should frame the problem around what her body needs rather than his shortcomings.
The column recommended combining intercourse with a vibrator—specifically cowgirl with external stimulation—and experimenting with variations on positions already tried to improve mechanics.
It also urged more direct communication despite the husband’s sensitivity, suggesting she take the lead in kissing and ask whether his pride matters more than her pleasure.